Relational Therapy

Relationships are living, breathing things. They don’t stay the same, and they aren't supposed to. Whether you’ve been together six months or twenty years, it is entirely normal to hit stages where the tools that used to work suddenly feel mismatched for the challenges you face today.

In my practice, I view relationship struggles as an expected step in deepening your connection. Often, the friction you are experiencing is a growing pain as you transition from the “honeymoon phase” into the deeper, sometimes messy work of figuring out how to be a distinct individual while staying deeply connected to your partner(s).

All Relationship Types are Welcome Here

I provide a secure, affirming, and zero-judgment space for relationships of all shapes and sizes. Love, commitment, and intimacy look different for everyone, and your relationship structure will always be respected and centered here. I explicitly work with:

  • Monogamous Couples looking to rediscover intimacy, heal from ruptures, and break old, rigid patterns

  • Kink, BDSM, & Other Niche Kink Communities looking for a knowledgeable, judgment-free space to explore relationship growth. Whether you are navigating power exchange dynamics, practicing safely, or simply want a therapist who understands the nuances of kink without pathologizing your desires, you are welcome here

  • Consensually Non-Monogamous, Polyamorous, & Open Relationships navigating complex dynamics, boundary setting, or transitions with a therapist who truly understands and respects your structure.

  • Partnerships in Transition exploring what the next chapter of your connection looks like

What We’ll Work On Together

By staying grounded in my theoretical approaches, we will look at where your relationship is thriving and where it is feeling stuck. We won't just patch over your arguments with quick fixes; we will work on the root dynamics. Together, I can help you:

  • Navigate Differentiation: Learning how to express your unique needs, boundaries, and desires without fear of rocking the boat or losing the connection

  • De-escalate Chronic Conflict: Shifting out of blame cycles and into productive conversations where everyone feels heard

  • Rebuild Intimacy & Desire: Addressing sexual disconnects, mismatched libidos, or the shifting landscape of desire in long-term or multi-partner dynamics

  • Find More Ease & Peace: Addressing traumatic experiences from the past (whether that be from childhood, previous relationships, or within the context of this relationship) to find healing by helping you both care for self and other as well as manage triggers

  • Co-Create Your Rules: Defining or redefining the agreements, boundaries, and communication structures that make your unique relationship feel safe and fulfilling

Relationships don't thrive because they are conflict-free. They thrive because the people in them learn how to grow together, rather than apart.